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If someone does bad to you, be patient.
If someone harms you, be forgiving.
If someone behaves ignorantly, be forbearing.
If someone deals harshly, be gentle.
If someone withholds from you, be generous.
If someone wrongs you, be just.
If someone argues with you, be silent.
If someone opposes you, be well wishing.
If someone defects you, be optimistic.
If someone accuses you, be honest.
If someone proves you wrong, be humble.
If someone makes a mistake, be merciful.